Wednesday, 16 May 2012

  • Lurking (aka "Internet Voyeurism")

    I’ve been reading a lot of blog posts lately about a few of the hot-topic “isms” out there:  “racism” & “feminism” are the two that interest me the most – probably because those are the ones that have the most written about them & have the most arguments / debates in the comments section. 

    Oh yeah – and the posts themselves are really good reads, too.  Very informative, thought-provoking, etc. etc. 

    I started out just reading them on Xanga – like here, here& here.  But there are a few other blogs I read (maybe you do too?) that I found had some pretty neat insights:  like this one, this one & this one

    I’m not sure what it is about them that interests me more than the actual posts – maybe I’m just drawn to the “drama” of the all the arguing – but I just can’t stop reading all the indignant comments!  I’m spending way too much time reading them.  I feel kinda like an internet husband.  

     

    It’s wrong / voyeuristic, I know – kind of like driving your car on the freeway and slowing down so you can stare at recent traffic accident collision (this is what causes traffic jams, people!) – but it’s intriguing to me just how many different “ways” there are to argue against perfectly valid statements & opinions. 

    Because, in the end, that’s all they are.  No one who writes these blogs are lawmakers or able to make their words into facts.  So why do so many strangers try to argue against another stranger’s words?  They’re meant to be informative (educational?) and helpful.  If you don’t like what’s there, stop reading! 

    I guess I should try to comment on these blogs myself.  But I’m really afraid of attracting trolls / being called an idiot or something, so I just lurk. 

    If you see my footprints on your blog – I hope you understand!  

Monday, 07 May 2012

  • Guess who saw "The Avengers" on Opening weekend?

    I normally don’t see movies when they first come out, but my friend Grant wanted to hang out one last time before he leaves for Japan, Stanford & thought this would be a great thing to do while he’s still in L.A. 

    I considered “Free Comic Book Day,” too but decided this would be more fun. 

    Anyway, while I’m not sure how much credibility I have as a movie critic, I gotta say that this movie did an amazing job of *not* disappointing.  The 2.5 hours I sat down watching this movie definitely flew by & I’m pretty sure I had multiple fan-boy orgasms throughout the experience. 



    But rather than spoil the movie for those of you who haven’t seen it yet – if you live in L.A. & are planning to see it soon, invite me; I totally want to see it again – I thought I would blog about the comparisons it’s been getting to “The Dark Knight Rises” which comes out in a few months. 

    See, most of my friends who are comic nerds like myself prefer DC comics like Batman & I’ve always felt a bit distanced from them because I grew up reading Marvel comics such as “The X-men”.  I’ve been noticing that schism a lot lately admist all the hype for the Avengers movie.  Some people I know actively decided not to go see it in Theatres because they thought the movie was overhyped. 

    “With all the buzz around (the Avengers,) it’ll have to give everyone superpowers in order to live up to the Hype.” 
    “It’s not ‘The Dark Knight Rises,’ people!” 
    Etc. Etc. 

    And I just have to wonder where this schism comes from. 

    From a superficial standpoint, the two comic universes are practically identical.  But if you happen to read both, you can see that there are some fundamental differences in their stories & themes that make me identify with Marvel over DC. 



    Characterization: Marvel Comics seems to do a better job of making their characters more like “people” rather than just the superheroes they dress up as.  While I’m no expert on DC comics, I’ve yet to come across a DC character who wasn’t primarily referred to by their hero / villain name (as opposed to their ‘secret identity’) or didn’t have their costume on 24/7.  In fact, some characters don’t even have a life outside of their ‘super identity’ so I wonder why DC even bothered creating their secret ones. 

    And while Marvel is guilty of this to some extent as well, I believe the majority of the superheroes in Marvel comics seem to strike a balance between their regular & superhero personas.  They have real names, jobs, and sometimes even take vacations from superhero-ing “just for the time-off.”  And as corny as it all sounds, I feel it makes them more relatable than the stuff of legends that DC superheroes are made out to be. 

    Story Themes:
    Again, I’m no expert on DC comics, but there always seems to be this unflinchingly rigid moral code that DC characters seem to have that has never quite appealed to me.  Batman & Superman show the best examples of this; both heroes have extremely high moral standards – Superman, seen as the epitome of truth, justice & the American way while Batman is the hero fighting against Gotham’s never-ending corruption – and all their enemies are just plain scum.  No matter who they’re fighting against, Batman & Superman are always good; their opponent is always bad. 

    It’s quite simplistic. 

    Marvel Comics, on the other hand, tends to complicate things by blurring that moral standard.  The creation of Mutants in the Marvel universe often allows them to use their storylines as allegories for complex political issues, giving voice to all sides.  An even greater example is the Marvel Civil War  – a storyline where the government passed a “Superhuman Registration Act” that split earth’s heroes into those that were in favor against those that were opposed to it. 

    Ethnic Diversity: 

    This one is a little nit-picky, but I feel like Marvel is more ‘ethnically diverse’ in creating their characters than DC, which – being a minority myself - made me like it a bit more than DC.  The X-men, for example, are from all over the world: Canada (Wolverine), Africa (Storm), Russia (Colossus), Ireland (Banshee), Japan (Sunfire), Germany (Nightcrawler)…..and, uh, however you count Psylocke (British mind, Asian body). 

    The argument could be made that the Justice League is equally diverse (a lot of their members are aliens or representatives of “lost” civilizations), but the majority of them are white-looking. (Exception being the Martian Manhunter & the Jon Stewart Green Lantern)

    And if that doesn’t make you think enough about the differences between Marvel & DC, you should take a look at thisblogpost from Gatewaygeek that argues that Marvel & DC represent the ideologies of the two major political parties in the U.S. 


    WHICH DO YOU LIKE MORE:  MARVEL OR DC?  

Wednesday, 25 April 2012

  • Welcome me to the 21st Century

    So I could either use this post to tell you all about the 2012 L.A. Times Books Festival that I went to this past weekend – where I bought some cool T-shirts from this company….!   

     



     

    Or I could mention how I finally have an I-Phone (data plan)! 

     

    To give you the backstory – my old roommate got me a Jail-broken I-Phone two years ago & hotwired my T-mobile SIM Card to it as a Christmas gift two years ago – essentially upgrading me to an I-Phone (but not really); I could take pictures & text…but since my phone plan didn’t include data, I couldn’t play any games or install any Apps.  

    But my phone plan was up for renewal, so I finally took the plunge to get unlimited Data (in exchange for limited minutes). 

    And after downloading a few Apps / games, I now know that having a Data Plan isn’t as awesome as I originally thought it would be

    For example – loading stuff on your phone through my data plan is incredibly slow; half the time I’m staring at my phone, I’m waiting for something to load. 

    Secondly – I’m still not used to doing some of the more complex “internetting” through my phone.  I’m so used to just typing on a computer & clicking on my mouse that sometimes I just wait until I get back to one rather than doing it “sent from my Iphone.” 

    Hmm….maybe an L.A. Book festival post would’ve been more interesting than this.  

Monday, 16 April 2012

  • My first CicLAvia

    This past weekend, I borrowed a bike & headed out to CicLAvia with my friends, Raul & Kevin

    I’m still not 100% exactly *what* CicLAvia is, but I believe it’s a kind of non-profit movement to help drivers be mindful of pedestrians and bicyclists.  It’s put on by the community and involves closing off certain streets to drivers & making them more accessible to cyclists / runners / etc.  I guess it’s kind of like a Parade for Cyclists? 

    I’m not really a ‘bicycler’, but I hadn’t seen either Kevin or Raul in a while and it looked kinda fun & a great way to get some exercise / sightsee around Los Angeles.  So I set my alarm for 9AM and met them down on 7th street near Downtown, LA.  We biked for the whole six hours around the city, stopping to take a look at a lot of the highlighted areas on the Bike Route. 

    I forgot to bring my camera with me that day.  But lucky for me, Raul did – and he was nice enough to share them on Facebook! 

    Bicyclists on the road

    Hollenbeck Park

    Piano at Union Station - free to anyone for use!

    Kevin & I at one of the many Food Trucks there

    4th Street bridge

    Coca Cola Factory / Ship 

    Union Station 


    Kevin & me on the bridge

    Raul's "helmet head"  


    There was also a traveling Camera Bike (or something) called “Snap Yourself!” offering to take your photo for free as long as you liked them on Facebook.  Here’s ours: 


    Me, Raul & Kevin

    I’ve resisted the idea of getting a bicycle of my own for a while now.  Carol, Evan, et al all bought bikes a couple of years ago and have gone on similar bike-riding events (including this one – we happened to see them a couple times while riding) before in years past and I’ve always passed on the invitation.  I don’t know what made me decide to say yes to Ciclavia, but it’s made me re-think my decision on owning a bicycle. 

    Also – here are some things I learned from this past weekend that might help with next CicLAvia (only six months away!): 

    -       Wear a long-sleeve shirt & sun screen.  I didn’t and I’m paying for it now with major burns on my arms & the back of my neck. 

    -         Wear comfortable shoes.  When you’re not biking, you’re walking – and the route is about ten miles long. 

    -         Need to learn the correct “posture” for bike-riding.  My tail bone is really hurting today. 

    -         Bicycles now have gears!  (Like a manual-transmission car!) 

    • o        1st Gear is for starting, going up those steep hills, etc. 
    • o        6th Gear is for speed. 

    -         It pays to start early – there’s less traffic & more open road to ride / make turns. 

    For those of you who live in Los Angeles – have you gone to CicLAvia before?? 
    Are you thinking of going to the next one?  

Wednesday, 11 April 2012

  • (Kids') Food for thought...for me.

    I recently hung out with a friend of mine who’s a vegetarian who told me he’s raising his two kids as vegetarians.  I was taken aback by this because his kids are only three & two years old; that seemed a little young to me to be denying them meat, chicken & fish. 

    I held my tongue though, because he’s the parent & should get to decide how his kids are raised. 

    But I also did a little research of own just to satisfy my piece of mind –a basic “vegetarian diet for kids” & “safe” Google search – and found a bunch of internet articles that say “yes, it’s perfectly safe as long as you don’t forget this, this, & this, etc.”  I was worried that not eating meat would stunt a kid’s growth, but apparently it doesn’t. 



    So it’s a lot like making sure that your kids just eat health by not letting them eat sweets or fast food. 

    If it were me and my kids though, I think I’d make let them eat meat until they decided they’re old enough to say they don’t want to anymore. 

    I mean what a pain in the ass - making two sets of meals.  



    What are your thoughts on raising kids as vegetarians?

Monday, 09 April 2012

  • "The Office" Morale

    It seems there’s a bit of a morale problem here around my office. 



    Not to go into too much detail, but there was a round of lay-offs in my department and those of us “lucky enough” to survive are being bombarded with the work that got left behind. 


    Management seems to have noticed how disgruntled that’s making us and recently had “secret” meetings with some of us to brainstorm for ways to make work a “more fun place to be.” 

    And after coming out from there, I just can’t help but think of all the ideas that Michael Scott had to make his office a more fun place to be: 


    Suggestions from "The Office":   
    - Basketball tournament
    - Awards ceremony at Chilis
    - Office Olympics  (thought of by Jim – but Michael would’ve been all for it)
    - Casino Night
    - Install “Call of Duty” on all the computers and devote an hour each day to playing as a team. 
    - “Movie Mondays”
    - Beach Day
    - Mandatory Fun Run
    - Create & star in our own Business Ad. 
    - Start a “war” with another branch of our company
    - Set up a Ping pong table
    - “Roasting” the boss
    - Casual Mondays through Thursdays (as well as Fridays). 
    - Play a Mafia / Murder Mystery game

    I stopped watching “The Office” after Season 5, so I’m not up-to-date on the show.  But I’m really tempted to suggest some of these.  


    Can you think of any others I can add to this list???  

Friday, 06 April 2012

  • Pretty people Problems

    So there’s a lot of backlash going around against the article written by Samantha Brick where she complains about the difficulties of being pretty. 

    Understandably, a lot of people think that “being pretty” is not something to complain about and that the problems she lists  (all women are jealous of her, too many men hitting on her, etc) are trivial compared to what the rest of us have to put up with. 

    And I used to be one of those people who secretly hated the good-looking for how easy I thought they had it in life.  But I don’t think like that anymore.  And while I can’t really defend Samantha Brick’s arguments (or say whether she’s good-looking enough to warrant her stance), I will admit that there’s some truth to what she’s saying. 

    Why else are so many hot women crazy? 



    If you watch ‘How I met your Motherlike I do did, you’ll notice that there’s an unusually large number of hot & crazy women on the show that Ted / Barney date.  They even developed certain terms about them such as “Crazy Eyes” & “the Hot / Crazy Scale.” 


     

    At first, I thought it was an incredibly weird stereotype to have of women.  But my then-roommate, Rob, pointed out to me that there are actually women like that out there….and it’s no coincidence that they happen to be both hot *and* crazy; these women are ‘made crazy’ by their own beauty….or how society is taught to treat people who are beautiful. 

    See, if a woman is beautiful, (like, “Megan Fox” beautiful) then she’ll figure it out pretty fast by the way that people treat her (guys flirting, women being jealous, etc.) & as it was explained to me, they start basing their identity / confidence in their looks.  And the more they do that, the more their identity becomes engrained that way.  So then they start expecting preferential treatment just because they’re pretty. 


    But when someone doesn’t treat them this way, it goes against everything they’ve been taught & essentially invalidates who they are. 

    Add to that the everyday pressure to maintain that beauty (exacerbated by the above) & pretty people can have huge self-esteem issues. 

    And then I saw this episode of 30 Rock where Liz realizes her boyfriend is too handsome for his own good. 

    The episode begins with Liz Lemon (Tina Fey) noticing that people treat her boyfriend, Drew Baird (Jon Hamm), differently because of his good looks. After watching a meter maid rip up a ticket for Drew, and fashion designer Calvin Klein offering him a job as an underwear model, Liz brings the matter up with her boss, Jack Donaghy (Alec Baldwin), who tells her that Drew is in "the bubble". Jack tells Liz that she should stay with Drew and enjoy the perks of the bubble, but Liz begins to realize that living in the bubble has left Drew without some essential skills. After discovering that Drew cannot perform the Heimlich maneuver, even though he is a doctor, and cannot play tennis, despite the fact that he worked as a tennis coach

    Now I realize that this premise is quite exaggerated (it’s a TV sitcom after all), but there’s a bit of truth to it.  Imagine if you were told that the only reason people were being nice to you was because you’re pretty; wouldn’t that damage your ego / ability to trust just a bit? 


    I’ll probably get a lot of flack for writing this (that is, if anyone reads it), seeing as I’m not pretty OR a woman and am probably leaving out a bunch of things, but I just wanted to put it out there.  After all, pretty people are people too.  

Tuesday, 03 April 2012

  • My first I-Phone App

    Despite having an I-phone for over a year, I’ve only just recently downloaded my first I-Phone App. 

    Today I am a man.    

    Seriously, though – it’s from “Prescription (RX) Hope & it’s this neat little App that tells you things like savings on Prescriptions, where the nearest pharmacy & sets a little alarm on your phone to remind you when it’s time to take your medication – which is the reason I downloaded it in the first place. 

    I’m not on any medication but, as part of my speech therapy, I have to keep a log of where I’m placing my tongue in my mouth at all times.  The reminder on this app help me remember that I’m supposed to do that and keep a log of whether I’m doing it or not. 



    Unfortunately, the alarm doesn’t always go off when I want it to.  I’m not sure if that’s my fault or a failure of the App. 

    So yeah….my first App is kind of a piece of crap.   

    Btw – in a few months, I’ll probably be upgrading my phone plan to include Data.  Then (and only then) I’ll finally be able to download Apps like Words with Friends….and this new “Draw Something!” App I’ve been hearing so much about!   

Monday, 02 April 2012

  • HOW (NOT) TO CHANGE A TAIL LIGHT

    I was recently told that one of my Rear Brake Lights had gone out on my car; not to be confused with a Tail Light – which was still working.  I’ve no idea for how long, but it put a bit of a damper on my following weekend & led me to learn a few things about cars.   

    Fearing ticket-happy Highway Patrol Cars and not wanting to tarnish my near-unsoiled driving record, I tried to fix it myself as soon as I got home.  But, of course, I know jack-squat about cars & feared I’d have to take it in to a mechanic – which would suck because past experience has proven that this would take up a whole Saturday.  So I did what any nerd my age would do with a problem he didn’t know how to fix:  I looked it up on Google

    Or…well, in this case, Youtube

    Turns out, changing a tail light is incredibly simple!  As indicated below in this really helpful video from 1AAAUTO





    Unfortunately for me, though, the video fails to mention that the light bulb responsible for the Tail Lights is also responsible for the Brake Light (i.e. it has two “lights” in the bulb).   So when the light shined when I turned on the headlights, but not the Brake, I assumed something was wrong with my car’s wiring and took it in to a mechanic anyway. 

    Man, I sure felt stupid when the mechanic fixed it by simply replacing the bulb. 

    This is why I decided to blog about this experience in hopes that those of you who read this can learn from my mistake and prevent such an embarrassing situation from happening to you. 

    Your welcome. 

Wednesday, 14 March 2012

  • Two years….and counting.

    I made the decision to have braces put on because my dentist (also my aunt) strongly recommended them to me. 

    She said that it would beneficial to my dental health in the long run if I started them now and, if I didn’t, I might lose my teeth once I start “getting old.”  Apparently my family has a genetic predisposition for bad teeth. 

    So I met with an Orthodontist and she said that, after looking at my X-rays, I would only need to have them on for two years.  Two years go by and wouldn’t you know it?  I need to keep them on a little longer…..and have a little more work done. 

    Now I’m doing speech therapy, getting microscrew implants, wearing rubber bands, and I’m *really trying* to do everything that everyone’s telling me to do so I can get these $%^&* wires off.  In fact, I’m pretty sure I spent over $1,000 this year on this. 

    But after yesterday’s appointment, my orthodontist is *still* not happy with the progress of my teeth. 

    I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. 



    My dentist / Aunt remains optimistic that I can see it through to the end.  She knows I’m disappointed and jaded, but keeps encouraging me to stick it out.  Just once, I’d like my orthodontist to give me some good news or be encouraging like that. 

    My next appointment is in April.  I’m kinda afraid of what else I’m going to have to start doing.  

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